I have been using IRC (Internet Relay Chat) for over two years now, and in those two years I have noticed alot of what goes on. What gets you “Liked” and what gets you “Ignored.” Unfortuanatly it happens, and it is because of your “IRC Courtesy,” IRCC for short.
The simple steps to being liked on ANY IRC network are listed below:
- Be yourself
- People who join a network and act all cool and like they know it all are the ones who get into trouble the most often, and they are the ones who are ignored.
- Treat Others With Respect
- I know you hear it enough in the real world, but it is just as important online. Even if you don’t think you are going to meet the person you are talking to, You still need to treat them with respect. You never know who it is behind that computer screen, it could just as well be your next door neighbor.
- Play Fair
- Don’t think just because you are good at one thing you know it all. You are just as interested as the next person. I have seen it a lot. “Know-it-all’s.” I have much respect for the modest person who knows much about something but isn’t “In your face” about it.
- Treat Others By The Golden Rule
- Treat others how you would want them to treat you. That simple. If you want people to respect you and to listen to what you have to say, then you should respect them. If everyone lived and acted on the golden rule then we would not have any problems in real life or IRC.
- Use Greetings
- When someone enters a room say hello. A greeting goes a long way and it may be hard to understand but when someone enters the room and is welcomed by someone it makes them feel special. When someone says “BBIAB” (Be Back In A Bit) or BRB (Be Right Back) make sure you say bye. When someone returns always welcome them. You can say Welcome back! or Just Abbreviate, with WB.
These are great ways to be treated with respect and kindness in any IRC chat.
These ways listed below are ways to get yourself “Hated” or ignored.
- Live A Lie
- This rule takes on many meanings.
- The first one is Lying about who you are. I am not saying you have to tell your age and your real name and all but don’t come in and make up a bunch of lies just so people will like you. People will like you if you follow these rules that are stated above.
- The second meaning is to not tell one lie after another to anyone in an IRC chatroom. It makes people not want to believe you. If you lie about everything people aren’t going to want to trust you, let alone speak to you.
- This rule takes on many meanings.
- Be hateful
- If you join an IRC chatroom just to be hateful, you will find yourself either kicked or banned. IRC is for great conversing, not for fights and/or “Hating” on one another.
- Spamming
- Spamming is a real problem on many IRC networks. You are creating a problem for yourself if you do spam. Others will really ignore your if you end up spamming constantly.
- Personal Issues
- Personal issues get in the way of a lot of fun in an IRC Chat. For example, if you are an op and you LOVE Windows, and have someone join that is using a mac, that is a really stupid reason to kick and/or ban someone. Even if it is your channel, word gets around and I have seen it happen many times. People will not join your channel because you are being unfair because of your “Personal Issues”
These are the simple rules your should live by on any IRC network. The main thing is to just be yourself. Be who you are in real life and I am sure you will fit in perfectly on IRC.
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